• Will Spink
    Senior Pastor
  • Wyketa Shipman
    Executive Assistant to the
    Senior Pastor
  • DJ Baptiste
    Director of Music Ministry
  • Bill Harritt
    Assistant Pastor of
  • Clay McCann
    Assistant Director of Youth
  • Kim Delchamps
    Administrative Assistant of
    Youth/Children Ministries
  • Derrick Harris
    Associate Pastor of
    Shepherding/Young Families
  • Shannon Clark
    Administrative Assistant of
    Adult Ministries
  • Angela Sierk
    Director of Children's Ministry
  • Tyanna Holbrook
    Director of Nursery
  • Janice Crowson
    Director of Facilities/Finance
  • Robert Blevins
    Director of Missions
  • General Contact
    For all other purposes
Contact Us Site Map

Small Groups: Deep Gospel Community

Monday, September 10, 2018
Small Groups: Deep Gospel Community

When I arrived at Southwood almost one year ago, I didn’t really “know” anyone. I didn’t know where to eat, where to buy groceries, where to send my son to school or where to take my wife on a date. I didn’t know if people would like me, if I would fit in, if I would be able to have close friends, etc. I had a lot of fear, but I also had the church. Now one year looking back, I can tell you that one of the largest ways that God has worked in my life is through the community of our small group. It has been a place where we can be known and get to know others. It has been a place where we can talk about our struggles and about how God relates to those struggles. It’s also been a place where we can laugh, cry, pray, and laugh again.

Our heart here at Southwood is for everyone to experience that kind of deep community that typically develops over time in small group relationships. We’ve all experienced feelings of isolation and loneliness. We know what it’s like to feel distant from others and friendless at times. Let’s face it: community is hard. It takes time, patience, and intentionality. Nonetheless, God still calls us to live in radical community together, a community where we bless those who persecute us, rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. God’s community is designed to be one where we are instructed to show humility to one another, to associate with the lowly, and never to be wise in our own eyes.

Gospel-centered community is at the heart of everything we do at Southwood. God will always exist in a Trinitarian relationship of community. Likewise, God has created us in his image and has called us to be in community with each other that is centered around him. Gospel-centered community is not possible without relationship. First and foremost, we want people to connect to Jesus because a relationship with Christ becomes the foundation and source of all other relationships. As we live out the truths of Scripture while relating to the world around us, we become a part of renovating the world one relationship at a time.

Gospel-centered community provides a harbor of safety in a hurricane world. It’s a haven where people can be known for who they are as opposed to what they have to offer. It’s a home where people can grow in relationship with God, each other, and neighbors. It is this type of community that we all need and it is this type of community that God provides through his church.

As Southwood adds a new opportunity for relationships called “Connect Communities” in September, some have asked how small groups are different from the Connect Communities and whether you need both. Small groups are similar to Connect Communities in that they share the same vision of connecting people to God, each other, and their neighbors.

Though they are similar in purpose, they are different in practice. Small groups are called “small” for a reason, and that reason is fewer people together providing the context for more sharing and deeper relationships. While Connect Communities are a great way to “connect” in some of these life-giving gospel relationships, small groups take time intentionally to go deeper in community. They are not so much a program to be involved in as they are a way of life for which God designed us. Relationships within a small group are often fertile ground for people who know and understand some of our struggles to remind us of God’s grace, pray for his work in our lives, and urge us to see life in the light of his Word. Being connected in small groups also empowers us to move toward others who are also hurting, whether they are “neighbors” living next door or across the globe. From neighborhood cookouts and serving together locally to praying for our missionaries, small groups provide an amazing opportunity for us to share the grace we so desperately need with each other and others who need it, too.

If you’re interested in finding a small group community, right now is a great time to get started. You can contact me personally and I’ll be happy to help you connect, or sign up online at southwood.org/growingsmall.


Leave a Comment

Recommended Reading

You'll find most of my recommended books available in the Guest Center at Southwood.

  • You Can Change
    You Can Change
    Tim Chester

    How do we mortify sin? How do we address the sin in our lives that reignite like a trick birthday candle we thought we had already blown out of our lives? This is a careful and thoroughly theological book that is hopeful without avoiding honesty. It is practical without being legalistic. It gets to the root of the sinful areas of our lives without offering a prescriptive regimen to hide behind avoiding the grace that has the only true power to teach “us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good.” Titus 2:11-14

  • Relationships: A Mess Worth Making
    Relationships: A Mess Worth Making
    Timothy Lane & Paul Tripp

    Small groups would be easy if weren’t for the people in the group! This book will help equip you to see your own sin first and provide the courage and humility to address it in others.

  • The Heart of a Servant Leader

    This is a collection of letters written by Jack Miller to people experiencing real-life concerns and struggles. Through these gracious and honest letters you will learn how to humbly offer to others (and yourself!) hope, repentance, and courage that flows from the truth of the gospel of grace.  Though this isn’t a “how to” book full of nifty steps to Your Best Gospel Life Now. It’s a glimpse into the heart of a person who has found food at the Cross, and you watch (and learn) as he humbly points others to the feast.

  • Comforts From The Cross
    Comforts From The Cross
    Elyse M. Fitzpatrick

    This 31 day devotional will bring you to the foot of the cross to remember and celebrate the truth of the gospel of grace, and develop skills that will help “inform, free, gladden, and enliven your soul every day.” Becoming proficient in applying the Gospel of grace to our own hearts is a key skill that is well worth our effort to develop.

Recommended Listening

  • Christ PCA - Nashville
    Scott Sauls and CPC Staff

    Listen to sermons from Senior Pastor Scott Sauls and other CPC pastors at a sister church.

  • Lookout Mountain PCA
    Joe Novenson and LMPC Staff

    Check out sermons by Senior Pastor Joe Novenson and other LMPC pastors at a sister church.

  • Steve Brown Etc.
    Steve Brown

    Steve Brown’s unique blend of orthodoxy and controversy, humor and profundity, and a refusal to play religious games will give you permission you have needed to stop being so uptight. And even if it’s for 30 minutes, you just might experience radical freedom, infectious joy and maybe even a bit of surprising faithfulness.

Recommended Links

  • Tim Chester: reformed spirituality and missional church
    Tim Chester

    Tim has an incredible way of applying the Gospel of grace that is both practical and honest with a consistent skillful affinity to point us to Jesus. He is director of The Porterbrook Institute; a church planter with The Crowded House in Sheffield, UK; and the author of over a dozen books including Total Church and You Can Change.

  • Of First Importance
    Living Each Day in the Good of The Gospel

    Here you will find a growing collection of gospel-centered quotes to help reorient your thoughts toward the splendor and grandeur of the person and work of Jesus.