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Small Groups: More Than a Meeting

Friday, August 26, 2016
Small Groups: More Than a Meeting

It’s easy to define success as a small group by getting everyone in the same place for two hours on a regular basis and leaving with no one upset at anyone else. As leaders, sometimes we feel that’s all we’ve got the bandwidth for. We need to remember that even in our weakness, God desires to use us for much more than that – to see his kingdom advance and the new community Jesus establishes lived out among us and through us!

One of the ways we as leaders can have our horizons broadened for our groups is to think of small groups as “more than a meeting.” Regular meetings are typically good connecting points and places where our relationships with each other and with God can be nurtured. But true community is often lived out beyond the group. In that vein, here are a few ideas of things that may begin to happen as the grace of Jesus impacts your group and makes you into those who truly love each other and your neighbors. Many important things happen during the meetings themselves, but these all occur outside them. Pray for things like this in your groups:

You know you’re a small group when …

1. A non-leader in the group calls to follow-up on something someone shared in the group.
2. People linger after the group meeting past when you were hoping to be asleep.
3. Two families connect outside of the group just as friends.
4. Someone comes to the group during an argument or just after a break-up to find a safe place.
5. The group serves in the church together as a group.
6. Someone shares a sin struggle with another member that they haven’t shared with anyone else.
7. You spend a holiday with someone else in the group.
8. A non-leader engages other group members in serving alongside him.
9. You drop in on each other unannounced or unscheduled.
10. You use group-text or e-mail to share about things beyond when/where to meet.

What other things have you seen in your groups that have made you realize you were really becoming a small group and more than a meeting? Share in the comments!

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